If you are a man looking for a successful online dating experience with just the right woman, there are several aspects about women that you simply must be aware of. If you have this knowledge, it will help you greatly in understanding how most women regard Internet dating and improve your chances of finding that perfect date match.
Women are different in nature from men both in respect to thinking and feeling and this is apparent by the large amount of information available about the differences between the sexes. Remember Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus? Ironically and regrettably, far more women than men have read this book; you should strive to do so. Understanding the female perspective in attitudes towards online dating will almost certainly help you in the online dating world, and likely even offline.
Women Think and Feel Differently
What do women who choose to pursue online dating really want? If you do not already understand this, then pay attention. This may make the difference between a great and a terrible online dating experience.
You may consider it important to talk about improving your golf score, but your potential online date may consider it at best unimportant. Believe it or not, the best strategy you can adopt is to ask about them and not discuss your personal preferences unless asked.
It is important that you listen rather than ramble on about your own interests. You can explain your life in detail perhaps later, but in the beginning of an online dating relationship, it is far better that you listen twice and talk once; perhaps this why we were given two ears and only one mouth. Virtually everyone, especially a potential date would prefer to be listened to rather than be spoken to.
What you do talk about is equally important and you may find that women are more likely to discuss emotional issues rather than sports or finance, and you should be receptive to them even though you may personally consider such issues unimportant. If you speak less and listen with a sensitive but directed focus, they will be far more likely to embrace you both figuratively speaking and physically.
Why Women Use Online Dating Services
As a man, you may be tempted to consider that any woman signing up for an online dating service is somewhat desperate and could not find a partner otherwise. If you thought so you would likely be greatly mistaken and this is not an attitude you should adopt when engaging in online dating. If you think in this manner it will only make your future dating experiences less rewarding.
A woman may not be satisfied in her efforts to find a suitable companion using traditional dating methods. As such, she may seek a dating website to help her meet that perfect match. To think that she could not find a companion otherwise is likely wrong at best. But what can be far more damaging is if you as a potential date were to actually state this. Do not ever do this in any instance. The most suitable response you will receive is a slap in the face, likely well-deserved.
Women are not desperate or afraid of engaging in a relationship and if you have this attitude about women and online dating expectations then you should drop it really fast. Why would you possibly even consider or sign up for a dating service?